"The peace that I give you transcends your intellect. When most of your mental energy goes into efforts to figure things out, you are unable to receive this glorious gift. I look into your mind and see thoughts spinning round and round: going nowhere, accomplishing nothing. All the while, My peace hovers over you, searching for a place to land.

Be still in My presence, inviting Me to control your thoughts. Let My light soak into your mind and heart, until you are aglow with My very being. This is the most effective way to receive My peace."

Excerpt from "Jesus Calling" by Sarah Young

I have talked about this before but it bears repeating. The abuse we suffered as children hard wired us to analyze and try to figure out our circumstances. We were trying to make sense of the insanity that we were living in. In the past I have done it to the point of wanting to tear my hair out from the frustration of being unable to stop my analyzing! There are still times I struggle to figure everything out that comes my way in this complicated thing called life. However, I don't struggle with it like I used to. I can honestly say I have more peace in my life than I've ever experienced before.

So....how did I stop? I have heard many who struggle with anxiety due to over analyzing say that they just don't know how to stop. Well, neither did I. I tried using drugs and alcohol to stop me from over thinking but found they only made me analyze more. There was no place of rest from my mind but that's because I was trying to stop it. However, God's Word states very clearly that there is only one Source of assistance with this. Isaiah 26:3 says "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you." Verse 12 says "LORD, you establish peace for us; all that we have accomplished you have done for us." For years, I have been asking, even begging the Lord to make me the woman HE wants me to be, the woman HE created me to be. I am here to offer hope because as time passes, I see Him making those changes in me that I have been so hungry for, yet unable to attain. I have found that it is only surrendering to Him that causes changes take place in me, LIKE over analyzing life! He died so that we could have peace. He yearns for us to be full of His peace. But like verse 12 says.....everything that is accomplished in our lives is only through Him. So, the next time you're in the middle of the hurricane of your thoughts.....call out to Him. Keep calling out to Him. Don't ever stop asking Him to change the way you think and while it won't happen overnight, He will be true to His Word. As a result, you will find you have increasing levels of peace in your heart and life despite the mounting insanity of the world around us.

His concern for me is beyond comprehension....

I have a wonderful friend and fellow believer at work named Jack. He has a heart of gold and is always looking for ways to show the love of Christ to everyone. He knows the struggles I have and shares things that he thinks will minister to my heart. I have to share the latest one with you from the book "The Cure" by John Lynch, Bruce McNicol and Bill Thrall.

"God never tells me to get over something and just get past it. Never. Instead, He asks me to trust Him with every circumstance. That involves communicating with Him honestly, in detail, until I'm sure I've left nothing out. He wants to hear it all. He wants to enter into every tear, every detail. He's been waiting for this moment. He's watched me go it alone. Now He will sit, elbows on knees, chin resting on hands, listening to every single word. I must sigh, cry, shriek, or howl, until He's certain I'm done, that I've gotten it all out."

The visual of Him sitting, elbows on knees, chin resting on hands, listening to every single word moves my heart so deeply. I deliberately didn't add a picture to this post because I want this to be the picture in your mind and heart. Sometimes we get so caught up in His awesomeness, His majesty and the fact that He is Ruler over the entire universe, we forget about His availability to us, 24 hours a day. And He isn't just available, He is REALLY interested in the things important to us and NEVER wants us to carry our pain alone. As abuse survivors it can feel that the pain of our wounds is more than we can bear. Honestly, I think it is without Him. I can't imagine having to deal with my heartache alone. Feel free to rant and rave, scream and shout, pound the walls and the floor.....He wants us to give every drop of our pain and woundedness to Him. Believe me when I tell you that I have and always found that in return, He offered the healing touch of His tender love for me as His little girl and has that same tender love for you.

"The troubles of my heart have multiplied; free me from my anguish. Look upon my affliction and my distress....." Psalm 25:17, 18

"O LORD my God, I called to you for help and you healed me." Psalm 30:2

"Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuse in him."

Psalm 34:8

I can't fix anything by myself.....

My devotional "Jesus Calling" by Sarah Young has a way of just reaching in and speaking to my fears. That being said, I had to share today's reminder with you.

"THE WORLD IS WITH YOU TOO MUCH, My child. Your mind leaps from problem to problem, tangling your thoughts in anxious knots. When you think like that, you leave Me out of your world-view and your mind becomes darkened. Though I yearn to help, I will not violate your freedom. I stand silently in the background of your mind, waiting for you to member that I am with you.

When you turn from your problems to My presence, your load is immediately lighter. Circumstances may not have changed, but we carry your burdens together. Your compulsion to "fix" everything gives way to deep, satisfying connection with Me. TOGETHER, we can handle whatever this day brings."

The highlighted part above...."Your compulsion to "fix" everything".....as I have said before, stems from our abuse as children. However, that doesn't mean we have to accept it with the mindset of "That is just the way that I am." Invite the Lord into your thought processes and ask Him to remind you of verses like those below. Stand on the truth that is in God's Word and be assured that the peace we so desperately crave.....will never come until we stop trying to fix everything ourselves and start handing it over to Him.

 "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

Isaiah 41:10

"The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing."

Zephaniah 3:17 

My feelings are NOT reality!

I want to share the devotional I read today in  "Jesus Calling" by Sarah Young.

     "I WANT YOU TO KNOW how safe and secure you are in My presence. That is a fact, totally independent of your feelings. You are on your way to heaven; nothing can prevent you from reaching that destination. There you will see Me fact to face, and your joy will be off the charts by any earthly standards. Even now, you are never separated from Me, though you must see me through eyes of faith. I will walk with you till the end of time, and onward into eternity.

     Although My presence is a guaranteed promise, that does not necessarily change your feelings. When you forget I am with you, you may experience loneliness or fear. It is through awareness of My presence that peace displaces negative feelings. Practice the discipline of walking consciously with Me through each day."

I always enjoy looking in God's word for scriptural backup to solidify any devotion I write or share with you. I found a Psalm that does so in such a beautifully picturesque way. The 23rd Psalm is so well known that sometimes we can start to miss the depth of the message therein. So, meditate on it and let it be a comfort to you in these stressful times.

"The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever."

With my background, both at home and in the organization of Jehovah's Witnesses, I can't get enough reassurance of the Lord's everlasting love for me. During my times of doubting His love or just feeling unloveable, period, I cling to the truth of the sentence I underlined. Regardless of how I FEEL, the absolute truth is that He loves me and NOTHING I do can EVER change that! That same truth applies to you. There is NOTHING you can do that will destroy His love for you! We can't undo the damage our abuse did to our hearts as well as our faith. BUT, we CAN ask Him to work healing in these areas. I encourage you to do just that, with the confidence that He has already promised healing to those who ask for it.

    

Why don't I have peace?

The devotion I read today made me ponder peace. Peace is something that we all crave, isn't it? I struggle with over analyzing and worry on a regular basis. I have learned from my years of counseling that a big contributing factor is my abuse as a child. As a child, subconsciously, my brain was trying to make sense of an insane situation that I instinctively knew was wrong. And because it was insane my brain could never come up with an answer or a solution, therefore while being hard-wired as a human being, my mind learned to analyze all the time. Now over-analyzing is something I battle regularly....sometimes to the point of feeling like I am losing my mind! Interestingly enough, I have yet to meet an abuse survivor that is not the same way. So, if you struggle with this too, be assured that you are not alone.

That being said, when I ponder peace and the times I don't have it, the truth is that I am walking alone.....at least that's what it feels like. It's a self imposed solitude, don't get me wrong. And the reality is that our Lord is always with us but if we choose, we can put distance between us and Him. I grew up hearing, "If you find you aren't close to Him, guess who moved?" The other contributing factor to feeling anxious is that I am usually looking beyond today.

I have spoken to you often of my struggle with belief in His love for me and I am pleased to report that He has brought a lot of healing to that area of brokenness in me. There is still much healing needed because I am far from cured. I have discovered however, that it is much easier for me to trust Him for today, than for the rest of my life. What I appreciate is that He is okay with that and interestingly enough, that is really all the Bible asks us to do. Trust Him for our needs.......today. Why is this so important? Because there just isn't any peace for us outside of that trust. Our abuse taught us to rely on ourselves but how well have we taken care of ourselves, really? I don't know about you, but I have treated myself like a piece of crap most of my adult life. That didn't began to change until I invited Jesus into my life to love and take care of me.

He doesn't just want to love us but wants to bring healing and peace into our hearts and lives as well. My book describes my journey to healing in depth but I offer you the hope that what you seek so desperately is available, but I have only found it in Him. I challenge you to just try it for a day. When you start thinking about tomorrow or 3 months or 6 months down the road....stop yourself and pray, "Lord, just get me through today. Take care of my needs, today."

Luke 1:79 when speaking of Jesus says that He came "to guide our feet into the path of peace." Isaiah 26:3 says, "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD, the LORD, is the Rock eternal." verse 12 says, "LORD, you establish peace for us; all that we have accomplished you have done for us."

Let the Lord have today.....just today. I mean a real effort to restrain yourself from looking beyond today and the worries of tomorrow. Focus on Him who loves you and wants you to have perfect peace.

"Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way."

2 Thessalonians 3:16

My thoughts on Friday's post....

I said that I would share my thoughts on Friday's puzzle with you so here they are.

     1. Don't panic - If we can remember that the battle is already won through the blood of our Lord and Savior and His eternal love for us....why should we panic?

     2. Assess your situation - a friend pointed out that it would be good to do this trusting in Romans 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him..."

     3. Find shelter - Well, what does literal shelter do? It protects and provides a feeling of safety right? So, keeping that in mind....The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:16 that faith is a shield, that helps us "extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one." thus providing protection. In addition, I have always found that while in prayer I experience a feeling of safety. I also see the body of Christ as a place to receive shelter.

     4. Build a fire - Literal fire serves several different purposes:

a. It protects against the elements by providing heat.
b. It is also a source of light, which keeps wild animals away as well as identifying our position.
c. Additionally, it provides a way to prepare the nourishment mentioned in tip #6.

So, regarding protection....the Holy Spirit is described as fire and being filled with the Holy Spirit as well as having it move in my life is definitely a protection. I also see fellowship with the body of Christ (ie, my brothers and sisters) as a protection. I struggle at times with wanting to isolate myself. But when I do, it makes it easier to allow dark thoughts and fears as well as the whisperings of Satan to enter into my heart. Yet, as soon as I have a conversation with a friend who really knows the Lord, those negative thoughts can be dispelled. As far as light goes...the Bible is called "a lamp to my feet and a light for my path" in Psalm 119:105. And that same fellowship I mentioned as a protection is also a source of light when it shines the light of God's love for me and His faithfulness in watching over me into a dark situation.

     5. Drink water - The Bible refers to several things as spiritual water. Jesus, when speaking to the Samaritan woman called the truth of salvation "living water." The Bible itself provides many needed words of refreshment for the weary soul. The Bible also speaks of the refreshment that comes from a well-spoken and well-timed word, to my mind showing that fellowship is a source of refreshing water in a dry land. And I have also found that worshipping the Lord with my brothers and sisters can quench the thirst that pressures and trials can cause.

     6. Find nourishment - The Word of God is the best nourishment there is. Also fellowship with those who love the Lord is nourishing to soul as well as hearing the Word of God being taught in a Spirit-filled message.

It is my prayer that maybe these thoughts will bring to mind the necessities of survival the next time you find yourself walking through a spiritual wilderness. The Lord loves us as His precious children and has made certain that we have access to everything we need to walk victoriously through the desert and into the paradise that awaits us on the other side.

     "Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."   Joshua 1:9

For your consideration......

A dear friend sent me an excerpt from a book that provided a rather entertaining puzzle to think on. The author of the book was describing the periods in our lives that feel like we are in the wilderness, spiritually. He said something we don't like to hear and yet is so perfectly true. "The wilderness is a hard place. But it's as crucial for our lives as it is painful. While the desert season feels terribly wrong, and loneliness and despair may seem to reign, God is with you and He desires to use the wilderness for your eternal good." He then listed 6 tips survival experts give for those stranded in the wilderness along with the statement, "As you will see, the secrets for surviving in a physical wilderness bear striking parallel to those for surviving a spiritual one:

     Survival Tip #1 - Don't Panic

     Survival Tip #2 - Assess Your Situation

     Survival Tip #3 - Find Shelter

     Survival Tip #4 - Build a Fire

     Survival Tip #5 - Drink Water

     Survival Tip #6 - Find Nourishment"

My challenge to you, dear reader is this: While tips 1 and 2 need no parallel to apply to a spiritual journey through the wilderness, what about tips 3 thru 6?

Think about it.......where do we find spiritual shelter? What does literal fire provide and where would we find the spiritual equivalent to those things? Where do we find spiritual water? And lastly, where do we find spiritual nourishment?

If we can ponder and answer these questions, maybe it will make enough of an impression on our hearts as to remember these tips when we start feeling like we are in the desert.

I would love to get your thoughts on how this list would apply to those of us who desire our walk thru the spiritual wilderness to be one of victory. I will share MY thoughts regarding the list, on Monday.

Until then, I pray that as you go thru the weekend, you are able to find peace and rest in our Lord's incredible love and grace. You are a treasure to Him, never forget that!

"The Lord will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame."

Isaiah 58:11

When I screw up......

Expecting perfection from myself and beating myself up when I am not (which is all the time!) has been a struggle for me all of my life. I have been programmed this way by my abuse as well as the legalistic, religious background I had as one of Jehovah's Witnesses. I understand the struggle of wanting to bring glory to God but seeming to do the opposite of that most of the time.

I know that Paul said that what he wanted to do, he didn't do and what he didn't do was what he practiced but I have always struggled believing that his struggles were at the same depth as mine....just based on what the Bible says about him. So I wanted to share the devotional I read today from the book, "Jesus Calling....Enjoying Peace in His Presence" by Sarah Young. I would highly recommend this book to anyone but especially abuse survivors who struggle with belief in His love for them. Each daily devotional is written as if Jesus were speaking directly to the reader....which ministers to me in a different way than reading other devotionals. So without further adieu, here is the devotional for today:

     "DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF." I can bring good even out of your mistakes. Your finite mind tends to look backward, longing to undo decisions you have come to regret. This is a waste of time and energy, leading only to frustration. Instead of floundering in the past, release your mistakes to Me. Look to Me in trust, anticipating that My infinite creativity can weave both good choices and bad into a lovely design.
     Because yuou are human, you will continue to make mistakes. Thinking that you should live an error free life is symptomatic of pride. Your failures can be a source of blessing, humbling you and giving you empathy for other people in their weaknesses. Best of all, failure highlights your dependence on Me. I am able to bring beauty out of the morass* of your mistakes. Trust Me, and watch to see what I will do."     Romans 8:28
*something that hinders or overwhelms

I hope that this gives you a different view of your mistakes. I know that berating myself for my failures is only from the heart of the enemy. The truth is that the Lord loves us passionately and only wants to build us up and encourage us to walk with Him. So rest in that truth today......YOU are special and YOU are loved!

Book Reviews of He Showed Me Why

I have received two more book reviews and thought I would share them with you since I have been told that they are very crucial in marketing a book.

By Mark Sherratt of Colorado Springs: "An inspiring story of a young girl's trial on the journey to womanhood and the tribulations that set on a course to enlightenment. From the darkness that was her life to the realities of a spiritual awakening that shed the past and opened the future. It is a story of struggle, despair and a driving force to overcome the odds."

By Teresa Fernandez of Colorado Springs: "A riveting biography about a young girl's journey into womanhood. How she handled the trials and tribulations of her environment. How she found herself and a loving, kind relationship with our Grand Creator, God. A spiritual adventure you'll not forget."

*SIGH* It REALLY is a journey made up of baby steps.

There is something I need to explain before I go any further. I don't have a home computer right now which means I have no way to do blog entries from there. So, here I sit at work at 5:00 writing to you. I have clocked out to be a good steward of course. Also, I really think visuals are important but I was looking at pictures of crosses for an entry over a month ago and got a virus on my computer at work. They were NOT happy with me so now I can only use the very few pics that are in Microsoft Office, ugh! Sorry, but this is the best I can do for now. That being said.......

Sometimes I really am not sure that I have anything worth while to share. I feel the Lord reminded me today that He uses my willingness to be transparent with my struggles as a way to help you feel better about yours. Sometimes it is just good to know we are not alone in our cycles or behaviors, at least that is what some of you have expressed to me. So I wanted to tell you where I am in my journey these days.

I have made mention of making the horribly dysfunctional decision to be in a relationship off and on for 2 years that has been my most unhealthy in many years. He wasn't a bad man, just a very broken man and we brought out the worst in each other as co-dependent people will. He has been gone now for a month or so and I am working to pull myself back together and get back on the right track again. It is amazing to me that after all the work I have done to pursue healing that I could fall so badly. But that is the point of this entry. When we come from abuse, the journey to healing never ends, well, in my opinion anyway. We work, we learn, we grow and we........fall. The point though is NOT TO GIVE UP! I could just sit around and kick the crap out of myself...you know..."Beryl! What kind of a moron are you?! How could you go backwards so far? What an idiot you are!!" But those words are words of condemnation and that doesn't come from the Lord. He convicts but never condemns. I could wallow or I could pick myself up, dust myself off and say, "Ok, I am going to learn from this and I am going to move forward and get back on track."

So that is where I am. Almost every night I am taking 2 to 3 hours and cleaning out and organizing some part of my house. I am blessed with a beautiful and rather large home so there is much to do in reclaiming my "pink cloud" but it is happening a little bit at a time. And that is the way everything works.....one step at a time. We just can't quit! No matter how many times we fall. Even if sometimes it is 2 steps forward and 3 steps backwards. We have to keep taking the steps and the Lord will bless the effort. Trust me.....I know.

                 "COME TO ME, ALL YOU WHO ARE WEARY AND BURDENED,
                      AND I WILL GIVE YOU REST."      MATTHEW 11: 13

After the storm...

Well, it is nice to see a break in the storm clouds after almost 2 years......FINALLY!!! I got promoted last week to a position I have been asking for, for quite a while. It also means a raise and once I pass training.....an even larger raise. Big enough that I can afford to live alone in my beautiful home without needing a roommate! That has been a dream of mine for several years and it looks like the Lord is granting that wish. Also, there have been quite a few things wrong with my car for a while and quite a few are safety issues. At the insistence of one of my dearest friends, I finally went to 2 garages to get quotes and the best quote was over $1200! Well, I certainly don't have that! Then this same friend volunteered to pay for all of it! Can you believe that? God is so good and I am sooooooo blessed to have the caliber of friends that I do. Reminds me of a quote from the movie, It's A Wonderful Life: "No man (or woman) is a failure that has friends." I often feel like a failure because of my financial situation and then I read that on my refrigerator and realize the truth of it. I DO have several, not just one or two, but several really wonderful, loyal, supportive friends. How blessed I am! So things are getting much better. Promotion, raise, toxic person completely removed from my life, healthy people in my life, continuing to sell my book, one book at a time......life is starting to feel good again! The Lord really only lets us get hit with what we can stand and never lets us stay in the storm.....if we just hang in there, there is always a rainbow!

When Lord? When?

I don't know about you but sometimes it feels like there is nothing around me but tests and trials! My head knows better. There are good things happening in my life: I found out today that I have sold 20 books. I know.....it's not much but it is a start. I am in the process of eliminating a horribly toxic, destructive person out of my life. No small feat either....I have had to do really tough and even scary things to accomplish it but I want to be healthy dang it! I hate it when I look at a choice I have made and see so clearly that it came from my wounding as a child instead of the God-given wisdom of the adult woman....UGH! But, the important thing is to pick myself back up, learn and try to never make that mistake again. The Lord has brought some new and wonderful friends into my life that are affirming, supportive and loving. Just what my beat up heart needs after this toxic person.

All of that being said......recently, the tests and trials seem to far outweigh the good. I am not going to list them all...not even one because I want to somehow try and be used by God to minister to you. I guess I just want you to know that even in the midst of victory, ie: self-publishing my book (wow, no small accomplishment!) removing a clinging, dysfunctional influence from my world, continuing to get up in the morning and go to work when all I really want to do is pull the covers over my head and go back to sleep....despite the victories........for the most part lately....my heart has been crying out to the Lord. "Lord! Please! I need a break...I can't take much more...I am sooo tired. When am I going to get a break Lord? When?" 

I think the blessings that I do recognise are part of the answer though. Glimmers of light...moments of being able to catch my breath.....truths being spoken into me about my real value, just when I need it most. These give me what I need to put one foot in front of the other for another day or maybe, hour or maybe just through the next minute. Truth is, we are not promised anywhere that fighting to live for the Lord in the midst of Satan's world is going to be easy. I know, you've heard that many times. Me too. Do you know why? Because it is so true and so easy to forget. BUT, the promise we DO have from the Sovereign of the universe Who is also our Daddy is that ......

       "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5

Short and to the point but take a moment and don't think about anything else that is going on in your life or around you. FOCUS on those 10 words. While you mull over the simple truth they contain, look at the picture of water lilies, serenely floating on the top of the water. Just "be" and rest for a few and remember when you reflect on the above verse, remember............."never" is a very, very long time!

He Showed Me Why

It was suggested that I share some excerpts from my book on this blog so have decided to start with the summary on the back cover.

" He Showed Me Why will take you through the life of an unusually tenderhearted woman. She is a testimony to the power of God because her heart was preserved through sexual, physical, emotional and mental abuse at the hands of the two people closest to her. As a cult member for 32 years, she experienced spiritual abuse as well. You will walk through the abuse done to her as a helpless child and then her self perpetuated abuse as an adult. You will hear the whys she cried out through the years. With the transparency of her writing, she will let you into the deepest places of her heart. She will share thoughts and feelings that most would try to hide. In the end, her story proves that even something as horrific as the abuse of an innocent child can be redeemed by the ever present love of God."

If that intrigues you enough to want to read my story, you can purchase it through my website www.HeShowedMeWhy.com  It is available in hard copy or ebook form for you more technical people!

I am always blessed to see you dear ones going to this blog and taking the time to read what is hear. I continue to pray that it ministers to you and your heart.

I am going through so much emotional turmoil right now that I knew I didn't have it in me to write something deep and long. So I started going through my picture files and came across this. I feel like this is from the very heart of God for me AND for you today. I hope it blesses you as much as it did me.

The Stuff Little Girls Are Made Of...

This picture painted by Jim Warren really spoke to my heart when I saw it on his website which is http://www.jimwarren.com/ To paraphrase, he talks about the beautiful and special light that little girls bring to the world. I really appreciated that because it is so true. What is even more true is that while we feel we were stripped of our light by our abuse, our heavenly Daddy knows that it is still there, deep inside of us. He wants to help us find our little girl again and let her light shine into this world that so desperately needs it. Let us take heart and know that by slowly opening up to Him, we will have more beauty in our lives and give more to others as well.

The Lord Continues To Move....

I just wanted to briefly share that as a result of the radio interview, I received my first request to come and share my testimony with a small group of women! I have known that the book isn't really the center focus but rather is to be a springboard for me to be able to share hope with so many other women coming from abuse like me. So this engagement can be an open door to more speaking! I would appreciate your prayers that I will be in the center of the Lord's will in this regard and that He would send more opportunities my way.

Just a parting thought to ponder throughout your day today:

     "The LORD is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him. For he understands how weak we are; he knows we are only dust. Our days on earth are like grass; like wildflowers, we bloom and die. But the love of the LORD remains forever with those who fear him." Psalm 104: 13-15, 17

Though being "only dust" He loves me, He loves you and that love is as constant as time itself. NEVER doubt it, no matter what the enemy whispers in your ear!

Discount Available For My Blog Readers!

Just as a thank you for following my blog I have decided to offer a discount through this site as well as my website and face book. If you go to my website and follow the link, you can enter the following discount code to receive $1.50 off the purchase of my book in hard copy form.

DISCOUNT CODE:  PAT8FHKS

I would be blessed if you would sign my quest book while you are there. I also ask for your prayerful support that the Lord will use the radio interview to reach as many people as possible that struggle with hopelessness due to the damage from childhood abuse.

If you do buy a copy of my book, I pray that it blesses you and affirms the truth in your heart, that you are NEVER abandoned by your "Daddy" no matter how much proof there seems to be to the contrary.

You can listen to me on the radio!

I believe it is a wonderful gift from the Lord that Skip Rice with KTLF 90.5 chose to interview me on his morning show after reading my book. The interview will be airing on Monday, the 28th around 7:40 am Mountain Time. They are on the web so if you are not local to the area, all you have to do is go to www.ktlf.org and on the home page click on "listen live". In a matter of seconds you will be listening to the station. I request that you pray for the Lord to use this to get the word of my testimony out to all who can be blessed and given hope by it. My book will also be available in hard copy through my website as of Monday morning. Thank you for all of your prayerful support and encouragement.

OPPS!!!

I thought that writing the book was difficult! Self publishing is just as hard, only in different ways. Without my dear friend Jenny....this just wouldn't be happening! We have encounted a few technical difficulties so the book will not be available til Monday, the 28th. I apologize for any inconvenience but we want the book to be as close to perfect as is possible. Thank you for your patience with this process. May the Lord bless you and keep you happy and safe throughout your day today.

With The Lord's Help, I Am Now A Published Author!

The last 3 years have been quite a journey and many of you have been here with me the whole time....well and longer than that for some. I cannot tell you how much your encouragement and prayerful support has blessed me through the turbulent years. While it was a huge victory to finish writing the book, actually getting it out there for others to read is an even larger victory. It was actually available online through my website as an eBook on the 6th of this month. But as of Thursday, the 24th, it will also be available as a hard copy. If you go to www.HeShowedMeWhy.com and click on the link, it will take you to the place on Amazon where it can be ordered. I am humbly requesting that you go through my website instead of directly to Amazon because I literally get twice the royalty that way. I was going to hold off on using Amazon's Create Space for hard copies until I made enough on eBook copies to pay for it all myself but have come to realize that no matter how much some people might want to read my story, they won't order an eBook. So, in trying to be flexible, I am going this route a lot sooner than planned. There are those of you that were very supportive of my writing process and I just want to thank you again and am blessed to be able to show you that it was not in vain. You were used by the Lord and I still thank Him for you. You know who you ARE! I welcome any thoughts or feelings you might have about the book after you have read it. Amazon reader reviews would be very appreciated as well. So, let's see what the Lord plans to do with this huh? It's all according to His plan anyway! Blessings!